on my porch swing
In July, the rain finally came, flooding the little pockets of bare earth under the trees lining the cornfield. It got hot, but we opened the windows for a few days, letting in the breeze and letting out the stuffy, stale air. I sat on my porch swing. I drove to doctor's appointments, … [Read More...]
New York City Birthday Trip…
4745 days676 weeks156 months13 years She’s been here for 13 years. All the cliches about time fit here. All of them, insert them right here: ___ We surprised our soon-to-be 13 year old with a trip to New York City in February. When the girls were little, and we were very poor, we dreamed … [Read More...]
2021 Holiday Movie Guide…
In November, the Graham girls (Ellie, Harper, and myself) decided to dedicate ourselves to hours of movie watching for the sake of others. We are nothing if not givers, and we decided a great way to use our precious time would be to watch as many holiday movies as possible and then tell others about … [Read More...]
2021 Ultimate Holiday Baking Menu…
The night before Thanksgiving, a friend and I sat at my kitchen table. We talked about kids and travel plans. We talked about changing family dynamics and grief. We talked about what we were learning, what we were struggling with, and what Christmas traditions we wanted to continue this … [Read More...]
I Deleted Facebook…
No, really, it's gone. I've been dreaming about it for a while; this break up has been slowly coming for years. It began four or five years ago when I deleted it from my phone. I wanted one less thing to waste time on so I removed the Facebook app. It was probably around 2016. I was … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: Games & Puzzles…
Okay, this is it. The final gift list for 2021. And this one might be the most fun? The Grahams play a lot of games. We play games when we camp. We play games on the back porch on summer evenings. We play games a lot in the cold winter months. We also do a lot of puzzles in the winter. Winter … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: For the Porch Mom…
This gift guide is a direct result of peer pressure on Instagram. This wasn't on the original list; I only had five gift posts planned, but someone suggested this idea and a surprising number of people were like, "yes, please" so here we are. I do have one more gift guide coming tomorrow and then … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: For the Camper…
This week I'm doing gift suggestion lists and, if you didn't know anything about me, these lists would tell you everything you need to know: inexpensive house stuff, books, gardening, and, now, camping. I think you'll like things on this list even if you don't enjoy nature or leaving your house; … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: For the Gardener…
If you've spent any time on my blog or social media, you know I moved to the country about five years ago and accidentally became a gardener. I say "accidentally," because I specifically told my family that even though my grandparents were prolific gardeners, I would not be continuing the … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: Books…
I love books. I believe there is no such things as too many books. I think everyone should own and read more books. I love giving books as gifts as a way to shame people into reading more. If you feel the same way, you probably already know what books to give people. But maybe you need more ideas? … [Read More...]
Gift Ideas: Under $50…
The truth is I'm not a good gift giver. If you just tell me what you want, I will buy it for you! But observing you and knowing what you want? I'm so sorry, I'm gonna miss all the hints and clues. I really like straightforward conversations, please and thank you. One thing that helps me buy … [Read More...]
