In July, the rain finally came, flooding the little pockets of bare earth under the trees lining the cornfield.
It got hot, but we opened the windows for a few days, letting in the breeze and letting out the stuffy, stale air.
I sat on my porch swing.
I drove to doctor’s appointments, therapy appointments, lunch with a friend, the grocery store, the library.
We listened to old albums from my college days, hearing the words for the first time all over again. Some of them make more sense twenty years later. We listened to Harry Styles on repeat, both for the girls and for me.
I sat on my porch swing.
My garden didn’t grow. Cucumbers, tomatoes, green peppers, tomatillos—everything is slow this year. The summer has been dry, the bunnies have been ruthless, and I planted late. But do you need a zucchini? I have 400.
Passed by my dead aunt’s vacant house this week; there was a black cat sitting on the sidewalk looking at the front door expectantly. Me too, cat, I thought as I drove by, me too.
Ellie has dedicated her week to making the perfect grilled cheese sandwich. Harper took a full bowl of her favorite cereal and milk to bed one morning. It ended exactly how you’d think it would.
We are all learning this summer.
I sat on my porch swing.
There’s a balance beam in the yard, Harper is mapping out routines and trying to cartwheel without falling off. Ellie—if you can’t find her—will be next door at the neighbors or on top of the shed watching the world go by. We are busy. We are not busy.
I sat on my porch swing.
The last time I talked to my grandma, she asked when I was heading back to school. I haven’t been in the classroom since 2018. It’s not worth correcting her, she’ll just get confused. We went back-to-school shopping this week, and I bought myself new pens and post-its, a shirt and a notebook. Maybe I forgot I’m not in the classroom anymore, too.
Our mailbox—the third or fourth since we moved in—is on its last leg. It’s become more shocking if people don’t hit it when they leave our house now. I wonder what the mail carrier thinks. It’s currently facing the wrong way.
I sat on my porch swing.
Gave myself a paper cut in my armpit—don’t ask, it just happened—and I might not survive the trauma.
I went for long, sweaty walks during the hottest part of the day. There’s something I enjoy about the unpleasantness of it. Maybe it’s penance for my comfortable office, comfortable air conditioning, comfortable life. I search for discomfort to not become numb.
We got new neighbors and their grandkids bring squeals and laughter to a normally quiet block.
I sat on my porch swing.
I watched the ground be broken for burial. I watched the family gather around the headstone. I watched the discarded flowers wilt under the relentless sun.
I sat on my porch swing.
I read the news, made phone calls, raged. I ignored the news, hid my phone, paid attention to the grass and the wind and the hummingbirds that buzz around the flowers I can see from my front window.
We filled the pool with cool water, with bright floaties, with wriggling bodies.
The girls went to camp. I went to Ohio for work. Chris went to the top of tall buildings downtown.
I wrote and cooked, read and napped, watched and grieved.
I sat on my porch swing.
We went to the drive-in and learned we are not made for the summer drive-in. We are fall drive-in people. We are go-to-bed-early people. We are sleep-through-the-summer-movie people.
There were book club dinners, birthday dinners, and drive-thru dinners. There was trivia night and shutting down the Mexican restaurant with loud, energtic friends.
I sat on my porch swing.
We watched a baseball game in Louisville and played cornhole in Columbus.
I sat on my porch swing.
We said goodbye to summer break. I bought my second pair of overalls. I learned sometimes you can do all the right things and things still don’t work out.
I sat on my porch swing.
And then July was over.
